Retreat

Life’s journey can take its toll on us. Sometimes all we need to do is escape…

Retreats exist to offer those spaces where life can not get in the way: places to not only rest, but to experience something deeply fulfilling.


Central to a retreat is the understanding of withdrawing from ordinary activities for a period of time to commune with God in prayer and reflection. A retreat gives you a place where you can be alone with God: to have the conversation with God you might have been searching after for years. In a peaceful environment, retreats draw out from us those questions we might all ask at times:

 

  • What does this life hold for me?
  • Surely there’s more to it than this?
  • Where have I been in life and where am I going?
  • What hopes and fears do I have?
  • What dreams do I have?
  • How can I truly live?

Retreats offer chances to learn from others and be directed, if you so wish, in asking these questions. Spiritual companions offer guidance and advice and are prepared to walk with you through your journey. And when retreats challenge us and our everyday lives, as God sometimes does, your spiritual companion can walk with you through that challenge.

There are four general formats for retreats:

preached, private/directed, silent, and creative.

 

 

 

 

 

 

  • In a preached retreat, a leader offers themed talks, leads prayers and is available for private time.
  • Private retreats are handled by the individual with or without a director.
  • Some retreats offer silent atmospheres where you can simply spend time in thought: your own space away; in calm and contemplation.
  • There are also walking retreats, painting retreats, retreats that offer music, dance and writing; retreats where all forms of creativity can be found.

Retreats are often places where deep friendships are formed. And where, in time spent away, we might also learn more about ourselves, amid the challenges of life. But a retreat is also an opportunity to be allowed to rest: places away from the bustle of travel and away from the world. Places where we can read, talk, pray, or just be ourselves.

How often in this busy life do we have permission to leave life behind and have an opportunity to think?

God gives you permission to take time out.

Tread the path less taken. It can make all the difference…

Where

If you feel you are not quite ready or able to take a few days to go on a retreat, you might wish to try a Quiet Day. Your local church may offer a Quiet Day or you can find a number of retreat houses offering these services at www.retreats.org.uk

Scargill House in the Yorkshire Dales offers a variety of events. There’s something for everyone - from family holidays to silent retreats. Download their 2011 programme.

Links

Community of the Holy Name, Manchester www.chnderby.org 
Tabor Carmelite Retreat House www.carmelite.org.uk/Prestonret.html 
Lee Abbey www.leeabbey.org.uk/ 
Hyning (Catholic) www.bernardine.org/hyninge.html
Scargill House  www.scargillmovement.org/
Loyola Hall http://loyolahall.co.uk/
Whalley Abbey www.whalleyabbey.co.uk/
St Columba's House www.stcolumbashouse.org.uk